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[td1220]

I finally gave in and purchased a masturbator sleeve, namely the EXE Yurika Miyaji +. I understand that its a good choice for beginners! So, I have a few questions, all answers greatly appreciated!
1. How do I use it? Do i just basically use it like my hand, or can i pump into it? If that's the case, could i stick it in between some pillows? Any tips or advice on what I can do to make it as real as possible?
2. Can I trust that my product has never been used before? (Bear with me, I'm kind of a hypochondriac)
3. Should i wash it as soon as I open it, before using it?
4. Will this, in some weird way, ruin actual sex for me? Conversely, can it actually help me prepare to have sex (still a virgin) for real?
You guys have a pretty dedicated section on cleaning, so I'll just use that. Thanks for any replies and I am patiently awaiting my new "friends" arrival!

[BigDog]

Welcome to TD.  You have chosen well.

How to use - well it all depends on the product.  For this one I would say start by using it held in your hand.  Dual layer toys are not all that fragile, but do require a bit more care than a single layer.  Excessive, and it takes a lot here, stretching or crushing may make the layers separate.  Held between cushions does allow you to be hands free and thrust away a bit more naturally, but that method with an onahole should be done after you have some time getting to know your toy and how it best behaves under pressure.  Using your hand also allows you to very the pressure and experiment squeezing thrusting in, or pulling back.  Again, for starters I would say hand use.

All TD products are "new".  As for washing it first before use it is not necessary but safety and piece of mind go along way to letting yourself enjoy the experience and not be trying to use the toy while your mind is "wondering".   I would say if you are asking the question, you may have some concerns so...use the 'washing' before (first) use (or any subsequent times) to warm the toy up.  Flush with warm water, or let it soak in a warm water filled container.  The experience with a warm moist toy is SO much better than a cold dry one...lol...you will find that true with a real person as well.

There is a thread in the forum as well about using a onahole and if it will take away from or improve the experience with a real person.  The simple answer is...they are both different in a good way.  Onaholes do not require emotion, or emotional attachment...and they do not provide it either.  With time, you will appreciate both for what they are and provide.

Take your time, experiment, guilt should be reserved for eating to much chocolate, not for using an onahole.  Read the cleaning sections, a clean toy is a happy toy...and user.  Invest a few $$ in an anti-bacterial spray (sold here at TD as well as other places...NO BLEACH is ever to be used).  After cleaning, a spray or two inside and out, use hands to rub it around the outside and pat dry, finger inside to spread it around and hit all the little nooks and crannies...if your going to warm with water before next use just store with the hold down and any excess will drain away, otherwise you can rinse again but just a little as you want to leave the anti-bacterial a bit inside and it is water where bacteria grow...keeping the inside rinsed, and dry is your best approach, but as you will not get a dual layer flipped inside out for perfect dryness anti-bacterial spray is a great investment and will not degrade the toy.

[td1220]

Thanks Big Dog, for taking the time to write a well thought out reply! Believe me, I don't feel guilty, though maybe a little ashamed, that things had to come to this point. But that's for another forum! Greatly appreciated your post!

[HardGay]

Amen~
 

Welcome to TD.  You have chosen well.

How to use - well it all depends on the product.  For this one I would say start by using it held in your hand.  Dual layer toys are not all that fragile, but do require a bit more care than a single layer.  Excessive, and it takes a lot here, stretching or crushing may make the layers separate.  Held between cushions does allow you to be hands free and thrust away a bit more naturally, but that method with an onahole should be done after you have some time getting to know your toy and how it best behaves under pressure.  Using your hand also allows you to very the pressure and experiment squeezing thrusting in, or pulling back.  Again, for starters I would say hand use.

All TD products are "new".  As for washing it first before use it is not necessary but safety and piece of mind go along way to letting yourself enjoy the experience and not be trying to use the toy while your mind is "wondering".   I would say if you are asking the question, you may have some concerns so...use the 'washing' before (first) use (or any subsequent times) to warm the toy up.  Flush with warm water, or let it soak in a warm water filled container.  The experience with a warm moist toy is SO much better than a cold dry one...lol...you will find that true with a real person as well.

There is a thread in the forum as well about using a onahole and if it will take away from or improve the experience with a real person.  The simple answer is...they are both different in a good way.  Onaholes do not require emotion, or emotional attachment...and they do not provide it either.  With time, you will appreciate both for what they are and provide.

Take your time, experiment, guilt should be reserved for eating to much chocolate, not for using an onahole.  Read the cleaning sections, a clean toy is a happy toy...and user.  Invest a few $$ in an anti-bacterial spray (sold here at TD as well as other places...NO BLEACH is ever to be used).  After cleaning, a spray or two inside and out, use hands to rub it around the outside and pat dry, finger inside to spread it around and hit all the little nooks and crannies...if your going to warm with water before next use just store with the hold down and any excess will drain away, otherwise you can rinse again but just a little as you want to leave the anti-bacterial a bit inside and it is water where bacteria grow...keeping the inside rinsed, and dry is your best approach, but as you will not get a dual layer flipped inside out for perfect dryness anti-bacterial spray is a great investment and will not degrade the toy.

[td1220]

So it came in the mail yesterday, and today I had a chance to use it three times. The first time was just weird honestly... A lot to do and the lube certainly got in the way and made things messy. The second time, I used too little lube and didn't enjoy it as much. Also, as this was my first couple of tries, I guess nervousness got in the way and my erection wasn't quite as full as it typically is. The third time was a majour improvement though. I tried it hands free by making a hole in a pillow case and stuffing two pillows in it and placing the onahole in between. Very fumbly as well. But I used my hands again and managed to get a good rhythm going and got really into it. It was... enjoyable. Wasn't the best thing in the world and my john is still really sensitive but I think I'm getting the hang of it. I realise that it's a learning experience. One hurdle for me, and a giant one at that, is that I can't seem to find a way to simulate real sex with it. It's so floppy that there isn't a stable way to keep it steady for me to pump into it and get really into it. It basically just feels like jacking off with a rubber tube. My hopes for the product were to be able to simulate regular sex. Any advise in this area is greatly appreciated! I am posting here and will probably post it in the reviews section as well. Thanks for reading!