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[johnhiggin]

As others have stated, it'll be more stimulating than an actual vagina and orgasms with it are more intense, at least from my experience.

I don't try and have sex with women anymore since it's too much drama and I never had the big connection that supposedly makes it so great for many because I am missing a lot of the emotional component that "normal" people have. I do still have the occasional desire and thoughts and when I was sexually active I'd look forward to it yet during the act I'd wonder why I would keep hyping it up. I chalk this up to the biological hard wiring most of us are born with where logically I realized sex wasn't anything special and not worth the time but biologically there was the urge to do it and make it seem like it was so great. Most stuff we like to do or just do in general is nothing but biological hard wiring rather than based on logic.

Basically it is trying to let the mind control the body and I really do think if most guys could shut off the hard wired urges to "fuck a vagina" that they'd see it the same way and not bother with the drama if their main goal is just the pleasure.

So I'm just a toy guy now and like the different feelings and stimulation they bring and the lack of drama required to use them. I have also discovered hands free (as in physical stimulation free) orgasms via imagination over the last few months and those are the most intense things I have ever felt. If actually having sex could replicate those then I'd want to go back to having sex as sex then would actually live up to the hype but it isn't anywhere close.

[lobotomize94]

As others have stated, it'll be more stimulating than an actual vagina and orgasms with it are more intense, at least from my experience.

I don't try and have sex with women anymore since it's too much drama and I never had the big connection that supposedly makes it so great for many because I am missing a lot of the emotional component that "normal" people have. I do still have the occasional desire and thoughts and when I was sexually active I'd look forward to it yet during the act I'd wonder why I would keep hyping it up. I chalk this up to the biological hard wiring most of us are born with where logically I realized sex wasn't anything special and not worth the time but biologically there was the urge to do it and make it seem like it was so great. Most stuff we like to do or just do in general is nothing but biological hard wiring rather than based on logic.

Basically it is trying to let the mind control the body and I really do think if most guys could shut off the hard wired urges to "fuck a vagina" that they'd see it the same way and not bother with the drama if their main goal is just the pleasure.

So I'm just a toy guy now and like the different feelings and stimulation they bring and the lack of drama required to use them. I have also discovered hands free (as in physical stimulation free) orgasms via imagination over the last few months and those are the most intense things I have ever felt. If actually having sex could replicate those then I'd want to go back to having sex as sex then would actually live up to the hype but it isn't anywhere close.

I can definitely relate to your case!

I can't have an emotional connection with anyone and I have sex just for pure sensation. I love the way a vagina feels on my cock.

If I could find a toy that can accurately replicate such feelings, I think I might just as well stop having so much of pointless sex.

[Xytan]

Watch the Triple X Branded review of the Maria Ozawa Meiki, the dude flips out over how realistic it is.

And I know how you feel about relationships. I've never actually had sex because I just don't want to go through the hassle to get something that my Meiki provides without all the headaches. 

[lobotomize94]

Watch the Triple X Branded review of the Maria Ozawa Meiki, the dude flips out over how realistic it is.

And I know how you feel about relationships. I've never actually had sex because I just don't want to go through the hassle to get something that my Meiki provides without all the headaches. 

I love that mindset. I wish I had that several years ago. I'm done with relationships. So much work just to get your dick wet and then you get some BS and "oh, I'm tired today--maybe we should just talk". lol, just talk? We've been doing that all week!

But yeah, I wish I never did any of these women. 

[Xytan]

There's a toy I own, I can't say its name here because ToyDemon doesn't sell it unfortunately, but it's seriously the best sex toy I have ever owned. I can't imagine sex feeling much better than this toy, I am not joking.

[SonicBoom]

And I know how you feel about relationships. I've never actually had sex because I just don't want to go through the hassle to get something that my Meiki provides without all the headaches. 

The one part of being in a serious relationship that I could never stand and caused me to be in constant conflict with myself was that I had to pretend that everything she was into and everything she said was absolutely the most important thing in the world, and I had to do this 24/7!  And at the same time, everything I was into was stupid and a waste of money(while she buys another pair of shoes and a matching handbag).  And things I liked to talk about was also stupid, and yet I had to limit time with my friends, who I could talk about it with. 

Woman are just SO HIGH MAINTENANCE.  All of the constant validation and attention that they need and the constant guessing of what they really want all of the time.  And their unwillingness to meet half way about stuff we feel are important.  And the best part?  Society as a whole agrees with them, not us.  And we take all of this, hell we SEEK all of this just to satisfy an instinctive need to propagate and be fruitful.

Sorry for the rant guys, I'll get off of the soapbox now.  Though I do admit that I feel a little better now.  Like some of you guys, I doubt that I'll enter into another serious relationship, unless I happen across an incredible woman who changes my mind.   In the mean time, meikis will fool my instincts and keep me sane.

SB

[DaaaBears]

All these talk about how relationships are a hassle, I kinda want to know what everyone's age on this forum, or at least the ones that are posting.

I am 32 going to be 33 in a week. As I grow older I do see more important things than sex and I feel that girls do require a lot of time and money when you're in a relationship. I love the companionship, but sometimes it does make you wonder if the trouble is worth it. I don't have time for your petty drama!!!

How old is everyone?

[SonicBoom]

All these talk about how relationships are a hassle, I kinda want to know what everyone's age on this forum, or at least the ones that are posting.

I am 32 going to be 33 in a week. As I grow older I do see more important things than sex and I feel that girls do require a lot of time and money when you're in a relationship. I love the companionship, but sometimes it does make you wonder if the trouble is worth it. I don't have time for your petty drama!!!

How old is everyone?

Hey DaaaBears, 

I am now 45.  Went through a divorce a few years ago and have been single ever since.  I do miss the companionship sometimes, but going through a downward spiral of a marriage over a year sobers you up to the cost of said companionship.  There is always a cost...

SB

[lobotomize94]

I am 25, been dating since I was 16. I don't think I can do it again. It is too much work and little gain.

Honestly, it feels freeing to not be with someone at the moment, though I must admit that I admire companionship. Relationships are good the first few months, and then...

Once you find out that the effort you put into the relationship is not worth the gain, you would feel free and more confident and secure about yourself. In a relationship, all you get is insecurity, pain, BS etc. In marriage, when you divorce, you lose. The most logical position is "what's the point? "Based on logic alone, I desire no relationship. Based on this innate biological need, I desired one. Now, we have super stimulating sex toys!  I can pretend like I'm doing it and feel like I actually am without any of the other costs of a relationship. At this point with the logical and sexual desires fulfilled, I find no need to be with someone.

I would have to agree with everyone here. Women are too high maintenance. They require too much and give little back.

[lobotomize94]

There's a toy I own, I can't say its name here because ToyDemon doesn't sell it unfortunately, but it's seriously the best sex toy I have ever owned. I can't imagine sex feeling much better than this toy, I am not joking.

Would you mind pm-ing me or telling us about this toy 

[Xytan]

I'll be 26 in September. My circumstances are probably a little different from you all. I am handicapped and thus can't drive and so I haven't gotten out to meet anyone, and since I've started using sex toys I don't have the desire to meet someone, lol.

[Xytan]

Would you mind pm-ing me or telling us about this toy 

Ok... the toy I'm talking about is called the Lilith Uterus made by Tomax. It is seriously the best feeling sex toy I have ever owned.

My only problem with it is it's hard to clean because it's close-ended.