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[pyro]

Is this good lube for meikis? Also can you use this lube on your wife?

[Universal]

*grumbles* the one damn lube I haven't tried *grumbles*

Tenga is one of the few all star lotions here I dont own. (specifically the red IIRC) I had a Tenga sampler but I was so meh on the Tenga itself, I couldn't say I did my full battery of lube tests as I tend to do with any acquisition. (of which there have been far far too many.    Seriously.

Im not sure which Tenga It had and what series lotion came with (chucked both) but it was unimpressive. It had the japanesq stringyness but thats where its pros ended. Dried wierdly, had odd finger feel, decent last time but who cares if it doesn't feel spectacular (I always trade better feel for use time) I would put it in the "solid but unremarkable" category. And IIRC correctly, its not a value star either (hence me owning almost every other best seller BUT it)

You've not mentioned where you are in your Meiki journey but Im assuming if you haven't dialed in a fav lube yet, your likely early on your path.

If you haven't done an Osawa yet, now is the time to do so. It's never been cheaper and I think most of us do it once just to see what all the hype is about. (its probably overhyped but I still think everyone should try it once, esp. when on sale) Its best asset is that it is more forgiving than most when it comes to drowning out sensations (i.e. you have more room to over-apply without killing your meikis sensation) and is a great choice for a wide range of Mekis (Id say med firm, duals like a ZXY or YJY to near powder puffs (milds like some of the numbered series or an Osawa (especially a well weathered one)

If you need more of a bulk buy, Peace Lotion is pretty awesome. I wouldn't say its overall best at anything but its solid all the way around and, to me, one of the better values.

As for "Can I use it with a partner?" I say yes, no, and how?  (ain't I a stinker?  )

Any lube here can be reasonably used with a partner. Im going to keep my observations to the Jap types (M.O, Peace, EXE, Toysheart, etc etc etc) as thats whats mostly whats offered here.

Jap lubes are usually stringy. Depending on your woman, it can be offputting. Some can get semi-tacky but nothing like american lubes (sticky gummy messes, ugh) They tend to be good lasters and pair kindly with lady wet. They often, however, are heavily laden with perfumes or other possible irritants.  If you have a sensitive lady or are unsure if she is, I *may* consider having a go with Peace Lotion but likely would just let her command the lube ship. She better knows her body (and possibly what works with it or doesnt) plus if something goes a miss, it doesn't fall squarely on you. ( some lube you imported with weird characters and freaky pictures... try selling her its *just the same as american* znd not  why shes in ichyville.) If shes game for trying it, by all means do. But Ive not met a jap lube that has desirable enough traits (when with a partner) to overcome the risk/reward of "something strange and new."

As to the what... Im gonna be indelicate. Deal people. 

As a:

Massage oil - Too expensive per ml to use that way. Ill suited mostly too. Neutrogena makes a sunflower looking oil. Looks professional, like you did your homework, and you care. Rub a dub dub ... bitches.

Handjobs - Toy Fluid isn't cheap per ml but it does a luxurious hj which can meander into penetration without consequence. Don't go bj though or anything in the where she can smell it area. Its very industrial. So "unpretty." 

Sex - Im of the american silicone persuasion which *destroys* Meikis. Ive read Maria can be lights out but as a rule I still worry 'bout the perfume and other irritants. (may score you pleasant points for the smell though) ToyFluid transitions nice but I wouldn't use it exclusively due to cost. (so get a hj then she lets you in... perfect use. Esp if shes a wet wendy by nature.) Peace should be lovely but Ive not partnered w/that yet.

Anal - Japanese lubes as a whole - You don't like her very much, do you?  Stringy, semi runny, little cushion. They do rewet exceptionally well but their baselines leave much to be desired for this activity.

w/Maria  - Youre gonna use a lot. Would work ok but not well. Rosey rosebud though. So very lovely. 

w/Peace - getting better. Not sure where this relationship is going but you hope to find out. Plenty of it to go around too. Don't be stingy.

w/ NPG Love Lotions - could be a gamechanger. Thick, cushiony. Lasts a bit. Reapply is no muss no fuss. She's  not going to mistake tonight for her birthday or anything but its obvious you care about her.

w/ ToysHeart or EXE - its obvious you don't like this woman. Do yourself and her a favor, end it now while you can still be friends. Because after you try with these, you ain't friends. 

w/ Superb Fella Saliva Lotion - You are a sick fuck.  Seriously. Stay right where you are. Im calling the authorities.

So, as you can see, activity influences suggestion greatly. Backdoor is the highest stress test of a lotion, hence all the reviews (and comedy!)

Overall, Jap lubes tend to shine with Meikis and do okay it partner activities. Peace then Maria would be my suggestions for all arounders if you needed them to be. The oddness of them (the packaging and being so different than american lubes) can come in to play though so be aware of that possibility and always defer to her in final decisions.

Play safe people. Asses are, literally, on the line. 

[pyro]

Your right.I am new to the meikis or any new toy for that matter.The last toy I had was prolly 8 or so years ago which was a Kobe Tai hip. I got the ZXY on the black friday sale here and the mini meiki for an insert for the soloflesh I just got..Havent recieved anything yet so well see..THe lube I got was the TENGA Hole Lotion Real (Red).

[Universal]

Youve made good choices.  Both the Tenga lotion and ZXy are highly recommended. The pairing should be fine.

As to with the lady, put it in her hands and let her tell you whether shes into it or not. Women are fickle creatures. They love and hate stuff for a myriad of reasons.

She's always your go to on what works for her or doesn't. 

[pyro]

I decided to make another order.

Julia+
Omanko Monaka: Natsuhara Karen (for a quick deal)
Maria Ozawa Love Potion.

Needless to say, I'm gonna be busy for a while..

So this means in the last 6 days I have ordered

Julia+
Omanko Monaka: Natsuhara Karen (for a quick deal)
Maria Ozawa Love Potion.
Mini Meiki® Long: Mai
Meiki® Zhang Xiao Yu
TENGA Hole Lotion Real (Red)
Soloflesh
 
Im new to this and already addicted!

[DaaaBears]

welcome!!! You are definitely gonna enjoy using these masturbators as the orgasms from them are night and day compared to the hand.

I wish more ppl would get on the male sex toy bandwagon. There is NOTHING wrong with guys using sex toys, girls use it all the time. Ever since I started, I wanted to try different stuff too since different sleeves could feel very different. Good luck and enjoy all the toys that you bought! You won't regret it.