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[DarthMalek]

Hell,  if I got the Venus-R I'd not only get a bathing suit or some other type of clothing for it but I'd also get a wig for it!  That must make me a real freak huh?

[yourself]

haha, no im not calling anyone a freak.  i am simply looking for opinions, not defensive backlashings.  so from you two, its fine to do, okay.  im just expressing my opinion here, that i think its a little extreme (for me) and maybe others?  we all like to masturbate, but how far is the extent of masturbation?  thats what im trying to get at.  there are things even more extreme then the venus, the real sex dolls look pretty fucking extreme.  owning something like this will most def. interfere with most female relations?  for i know it would, maybe not for others...

[casquetero]

haha, no im not calling anyone a freak.  i am simply looking for opinions, not defensive backlashings.  so from you two, its fine to do, okay.  im just expressing my opinion here, that i think its a little extreme (for me) and maybe others?  we all like to masturbate, but how far is the extent of masturbation?  thats what im trying to get at.  there are things even more extreme then the venus, the real sex dolls look pretty fucking extreme.  owning something like this will most def. interfere with most female relations?  for i know it would, maybe not for others...

Well, add another one to the "extreme" masturbators. I don't only have a Venus R (which I keep dressed to preserve it and with a wig), but I bought a Teddy Babe just a week ago. I had even "named" them (just to make my life easier when referring to them in other forums).

Now, do they interfere with real life relationships? Not really, at least on my case. I had been single for the past 6 - 7 months and these two dolls help me "keeping in shape" (if you know what I mean). I get out with women now and then, but since I don't like casual sex, the dolls (combined with my collection of sleeves / onaholes) provide me release without putting myself in risk of STDs. That's basically my opinion...

As for onaholes to use with the Love Venus R, consider the Meguru (I have that one since last summer), the Tsubomi, the Si-X Type Rl, Innocent Little Sister, and the Peach Pai. The Meguru and Tsubomi have an organic inner texture like the more expensive Meikis and they fit nicely.  The Si-X is a less than $20 onahole that fits well and feels good with the LVR. For a less realistic approach, the Peach Pai is a fun one to have, as well as the Innocent Sister.

In terms of clothing try for XS, S, Girls 10/12, Junior 7/9 and dresses sizes 4 / 5 (all US sizes). If you have thrift stores nearby, try them before spending a bunch in one piece swimsuits.

[yourself]

so you could bring home a date and introduce her to the two dolls you own and nothing would be out of normal?  for it would be, not that i would own dolls if the girls wouldnt care about it, its just a little out of the norm for me.  grown men with dolls they name and have masturbation sessions with?  idk, its just weird to me

[casquetero]

so you could bring home a date and introduce her to the two dolls you own and nothing would be out of normal?  for it would be, not that i would own dolls if the girls wouldnt care about it, its just a little out of the norm for me.  grown men with dolls they name and have masturbation sessions with?  idk, its just weird to me

So you could take home a date and show your toys and nothing would be out of normal?  Do you consider having a masturbation session with a rubber / silicone vagina "weird"? Fucking a doll is as weird as fucking any sleeve or onahole. The doll is a holding place for the onahole - with the added benefit of a female form to hold and grab.

My experience with the two women that had seen the doll (the Venus R), is that they end liking the damn thing more than I do. They have their toys and they realize that if you take so many attentions with a doll, you take even more attentions with them. One of them was the first one suggesting me naming the doll and making it a face and she bought some wigs and outfits for it. The other one loved to cuddle with it at times.

All weirdness depends on how things are presented to you...

[yourself]

so you could bring home a date and introduce her to the two dolls you own and nothing would be out of normal?  for it would be, not that i would own dolls if the girls wouldnt care about it, its just a little out of the norm for me.  grown men with dolls they name and have masturbation sessions with?  idk, its just weird to me

So you could take home a date and show your toys and nothing would be out of normal?  Do you consider having a masturbation session with a rubber / silicone vagina "weird"? Fucking a doll is as weird as fucking any sleeve or onahole. The doll is a holding place for the onahole - with the added benefit of a female form to hold and grab.


All weirdness depends on how things are presented to you...

you just re-asked my question for me.  its one thing to buy rubber pocket pussies (similar to a dildo for a female) and one thing to buy dolls and put pocket pussies into.  this is the difference i am trying to get at.  when i bring home females the last thing on my mind are my pocket pussies, so ive never been like hey check these out. 

[casquetero]

so you could bring home a date and introduce her to the two dolls you own and nothing would be out of normal?  for it would be, not that i would own dolls if the girls wouldnt care about it, its just a little out of the norm for me.  grown men with dolls they name and have masturbation sessions with?  idk, its just weird to me

So you could take home a date and show your toys and nothing would be out of normal?  Do you consider having a masturbation session with a rubber / silicone vagina "weird"? Fucking a doll is as weird as fucking any sleeve or onahole. The doll is a holding place for the onahole - with the added benefit of a female form to hold and grab.


All weirdness depends on how things are presented to you...

you just re-asked my question for me.  its one thing to buy rubber pocket pussies (similar to a dildo for a female) and one thing to buy dolls and put pocket pussies into.  this is the difference i am trying to get at.  when i bring home females the last thing on my mind are my pocket pussies, so ive never been like hey check these out. 

I re-asked your question to show my point: dolls are just another sex toy. As sex toys, I do not show them to every female that comes to my house. As any sex toy - rubber pussy, dildo, vibrator - they are stored when I have company and introduced into the relationship when (and if) appropriate. 

The dolls I have are both plush dolls, so they not as "intimidating" as the silicone ones. As I wrote (answering your question about their impact in relationships), the two women I had been with since getting my first doll had found it adorable, even buying stuff for it and using it as much as I do.

[yourself]

alright, so i have your opinion once again, great.  anyone else with an expression as to how much is to much?

[muddbutt]

Cmon now grow up. A sex toy is exactly what it is... a sex toy just because its a doll or a dildo doesn't make it any different. My rule of thumb if it's illegal then it's too far.

[billyjoe]

I used to be a devout born-again Christian.  Many years ago I started asking too many questions that could only be answered by letting go of the idea that one book -the Bible - was the ultimate (indeed, to some fundamentalist Christians, the only) source of knowledge and wisdom.  This letting go of belief, which is what I call faith/agnosticism, is truly liberating.  BUT, one verse in the Bible that I will not let go of, and is appropriate to this forum thread, is "Judge not, that ye be not judged".

[yourself]

surprisingly, these are the answers i was looking for.  i just turned over a new leaf in my life, a healthy one.  i have recently stopped all masturbation practices and sexual intercourse (for the time being).  i am partaking in a chemical balance study here at my local MC, and one of the items on the list of things not to do is ejaculate (which means no masturbating), one is not to even increase the blood in that part of the body.  it is a test of the chemical balances in the body, thats all i really know im not a doctor.  however, since i have stopped for about 5 days now, ive notice an increase in posture, less sweaty hands (due to increased blood circulation), and a better complexion.  i have time now to do more things as well.  i use to be addicted to watching porn, at least thats what id call it.  i would browse websites for hours a day, prolly like 2 hours total.  now i have time to run, workout, and read (something i havent done in years). 

the reason i asked this is i was trying to make a comparison, and obv. it doesnt matter to anyone here if a doll is too much.  so in my effort to help my new life style i will be shutting the door on those toys, locking them up in a bin for storage.  thanks for the answers.  it is hard to go cold turkey from it, but i have a new life style now and i wont be thinking about such things anymore, yall might not see me on here in a long while, later all 

[muddbutt]

Yup quitting cold turkey can be tough so good luck with your journey. I used to be very addicted to porn and videogames and it could easily take over my day if I let it. Time management was my problem, plus everyone should get up and get active it's very healthy for you. After I stopped playing games and watching porn all day I tested myself to see how long I could go without ejaculating, I made it to about 4 1/2 months before I couldn't take it anymore. I couldn't visit TD if I were trying to quit for a minute shoot just looking at a intriguing sextoy can get my blood flowing.

[casquetero]

As everything in life, "too much" of anything is relative. For some people, sex of any type on a daily basis would be too much, for others that would be not enough... Balance is individual and unique.

Personally, I'm living the most balanced life I have had in more than 10 years. Unlike 10 - 15 years ago, now I have a better distribution of work / leisure / rest time, I'm eating much better and taking care of my health. I learned to listen to my body, and now I am healthier than 15 years ago.

I hope that you find balance with your new lifestyle choices.

[DaaaBears]

casquetero, just curious, how old are you now?

I am in my late 20's and I find it harder and harder to live like when I was in my early 20's, but at the same time, I don't feel like things have changed that much for me for me to change my lifestyle......

I don't know if it makes any sense to you, but I still feel like I feel the same at heart like when I was 18 or so.

It's very interesting to read how some of you are able to make complete turnarounds with your life.

[casquetero]

casquetero, just curious, how old are you now?

I am in my late 20's and I find it harder and harder to live like when I was in my early 20's, but at the same time, I don't feel like things have changed that much for me for me to change my lifestyle......

I don't know if it makes any sense to you, but I still feel like I feel the same at heart like when I was 18 or so.

It's very interesting to read how some of you are able to make complete turnarounds with your life.

According to my birth certificate, I'm 38 - but I feel better than when I was 25.

At that time, my health (mental and physical) took a turn to the wrong side. I worked 12 - 14 hours every day for 5 years and the stress and some freak accidents (a car accident in 2002, a fall the following year) took the best part of me. I began to turn my life around during 2003 while recovering from the fall with a series of baby steps, mainly directed at knowing myself. Now I feel much better, but the it's still a work in progress...