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[bitterfish]

Hey all,

After drooling over the many products on the site for a few days and looking at reviews, I'm probably going to take the plunge (pun intended) and try one.

I currently own a wonderwave fleshlight; while it feels nice, it's got a lot of shortcomings.  I devote a lot of time to, ahem, waxing my carrot and have long "edging" sessions (4-6 hours) a few nights a week - sometimes longer.  The problem is that I'm easily aroused and come very quickly, and it's nearly impossible for me to last longer than 10 seconds inside my fleshlight (I have to pull out immediately and rest for like a minute), so I can never really have any fun with it aside from a near-instant orgasm (which is the opposite of what I like).  I can stand it better if I come three or four times, but by then I'm tired and not really in the mood any more.  Also, the inside isn't the most comfortable (penetrating it hands free is almost painful sometimes) and the bottom leaks lube and other stuff quite easily.

Sooo, I'm looking for a sleeve or onahole that is soft, gentle, and less stimulating for long, slow sessions (at the computer or in bed :3).  The Kashin onaholes look very comfortable and soft, but they look like they might still be stimulating (though I guess if it were soft and comfortable enough, I can finish one or two times over the course of 15 minutes to balance it out).  Durability is big, too; it would see heavy use.

Sorry if my words are a bit... TMI; I'm just trying to really outline what I'm looking for.

Thanks .

[noppim]

Maybe you should look into Premature Ejaculation as well?

[Paste]

I'd highly recommend the Meiki Down or the Meiki Maria Ozawa for softness and long sessions.  Personally I like the Meiki Down more than the Ozawa.

[muddbutt]

Well I'd go with the Meiki OL or EXP. I have the OL and I've had some very long sessions with her. The canal doesn't offer as much micro detail as the Ozawa and other onaholes so she feels more gentle, but the canal design and gspot placement feel so good that it makes for an long exciting ride.

[bitterfish]

Maybe you should look into Premature Ejaculation as well?

I've thought about this before, but it only occurs with masturbation (I'm what I'd call normal when with a girl).  I've been like this since I started jerking.  On the other hand, I have a rather low refractory period.  It's not an issue with normal masturbation, but it's not much fun when I go through all the work of prepping a toy, lubing it up, laying down towels, and all that just to ejaculate nearly immediately.  I can control if I really try, but it's tougher to control when a toy is involved - that's why I want something on the less stimulating side.

The Meiki toys look like fun and soft, but the OL and the EXP seem like they require a lot of lube.  Does lube tend to last longer in sleeves with no opening at the bottom?  Also, does turning these toys inside out for cleaning cause them to wear out faster?

The Meiki onaholes seem to be what I'm looking for, though... now to narrow it down .  Using more lube is kind of annoying, but if those sleeves are gentler, then I'd definitely go for one those.

[noppim]

Good to hear mate. I am waiting for zxy to arrive, it will be my first toy. Hope you find a suitable one!

[cpool]

The clone meikis are really soft. I have the Miyu Hoshino and it is very soft and tight. I would say it is softer AND tighter than the Meiki Zhang Xiao Yu, but you can feel the texture a lot more in the Meiki ZXY, which means it's more stimulating. Look into the clone meikis, they might be what you are looking for.

[muddbutt]

My OL doesn't use anymore lube than my other toys. If you are having issues with sensitivity and premature ejaculation these toys make seem to make that problem worst. Meiki's material is very soft and can definitely create a very overstimulating feeling.

[bitterfish]

My OL doesn't use anymore lube than my other toys. If you are having issues with sensitivity and premature ejaculation these toys make seem to make that problem worst. Meiki's material is very soft and can definitely create a very overstimulating feeling.

If the meiki products are soft and less tight than my current fleshlight, then it'd be worth it.  I'm concerned about softness because I like to have extended sessions, but the sensitivity thing is more out of convenience; I'm used to having to control myself (I can usually go twice in a row anyway, sometimes three).