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[tentomruler]

Hey everyone,

I'm a virgin and have never tried having sex, and for some reason, I am paranoid that I won't be able to have sex with a vagina. I am perfectly capable of getting an erection and ejaculating when I masturbate.

I'm hoping that getting a meiki will alleviate my fears. If I can have sex to a lubed meiki, is it logical to conclude that I can have sex to a lubed vagina? Do they feel almost exactly the same?

Thanks

[DaaaBears]

if you are nervous about having real sex.......then I think if you can afford it and have place for it, save up some money and get the plush doll. I think that's as close to real sex as you will get other than some real doll. You can practice different positions and get the full immersion that comes with sex.

Of course nothing beats the real thing especially if you like/love the girl you're with, but the doll is the best alternative for your need.

[HardGay]

I agree with DaaaBears as for getting a meiki plush doll for simulation of sex with different body positions. but as for the sleeve to use with the doll, I think you won't go wrong with a Ozawa meiki to simulate real sex. it's pretty close to the real thing. you can even try to submerge it in warm water first to warm up the toy if you don't want to start your toy session with a cold sleeve. No worries, You'll be just fine!!!

[Huggy]

I disagree.

I think with real sex, you just have to use your instincts and roll the dice. The right woman will make you comfortable, a woman who's enjoying it. The wrong woman will make you feel like she just want to get away from a scum who happens to be you.

It has nothing to do with experience or simulation. Toys or other humans. You can have great sex with someone prettier than a supermodel who make you feel loved, and down the road in life, some ugly annoying woman who you swear you won't have anything to do with, becomes needy but then makes you feel like a perv for no reason.

So see, in those cases, even if you had successful sex simulation with a real vagina belong to a gorgeous women before, some other future woman may still make you feel uneasy during sex. It's not all on you. How relaxed and confident you'll feel depends on a lot of varying factors that's not within your control or anticipation.

Point is, just do it, and not worry too much. I know some chicks dig the inexperienced type. I know a very good natured sweet girl who's one of the most gorgeous woman I had ever seen, told a story about how her fiance was inexperienced, had too much thoughts going through his mind on their first, and lost his confidence and mojo half way. And she giggled about how she helped him back up with her oral skill to get it going.

So, that's one story. But for another woman, she may feel frustrated that you don't find her sexy enough, or you have problems getting up and will expect her to go down on you which she hates.

Just roll the dice and go, and find out. Because sex will be different with different women. As a general rule, I think women who see themselves as sexy and feminine will make you comfortable. And women who have low self esteem but act cocky and bitchy, no matter how hot their bodies are to you, will make you lose interest in having sex with a human being for quite a while. Just use your instincts and follow it.

[HardGay]

Amen~~ Well put 

I disagree.

I think with real sex, you just have to use your instincts and roll the dice. The right woman will make you comfortable, a woman who's enjoying it. The wrong woman will make you feel like she just want to get away from a scum who happens to be you.

It has nothing to do with experience or simulation. Toys or other humans. You can have great sex with someone prettier than a supermodel who make you feel loved, and down the road in life, some ugly annoying woman who you swear you won't have anything to do with, becomes needy but then makes you feel like a perv for no reason.

So see, in those cases, even if you had successful sex simulation with a real vagina belong to a gorgeous women before, some other future woman may still make you feel uneasy during sex. It's not all on you. How relaxed and confident you'll feel depends on a lot of varying factors that's not within your control or anticipation.

Point is, just do it, and not worry too much. I know some chicks dig the inexperienced type. I know a very good natured sweet girl who's one of the most gorgeous woman I had ever seen, told a story about how her fiance was inexperienced, had too much thoughts going through his mind on their first, and lost his confidence and mojo half way. And she giggled about how she helped him back up with her oral skill to get it going.

So, that's one story. But for another woman, she may feel frustrated that you don't find her sexy enough, or you have problems getting up and will expect her to go down on you which she hates.

Just roll the dice and go, and find out. Because sex will be different with different women. As a general rule, I think women who see themselves as sexy and feminine will make you comfortable. And women who have low self esteem but act cocky and bitchy, no matter how hot their bodies are to you, will make you lose interest in having sex with a human being for quite a while. Just use your instincts and follow it.

[johnhiggin]

"real sex" and the vagina are the most overrated things I have ever witnessed/experienced. Before I ever had sex many years ago I bought into the hype and thought it would be this amazing experience and once I was taking part in it I thought to myself "THIS is what people get so hyped up for and act like it is the holy grail of life?"

I wish I could talk to every virgin male who has put pussy and having sex on the pedestal and let them know it really isn't anything special. If most of us weren't biologically hardwired to want to do it then I honestly don't think it'd get hyped up as much as it does and people would see it isn't anything special. That and there is the herd mentality where people are told it is so amazing so they MUST follow the herd and also believe it is amazing for fear of being seen as an outcast if they actually state it isn't anything special.

[HardGay]

I can understand it from a procreate point of view that it's in every male's DNA to want to have a child... I suppose sex was never meant to be a entertainment but for the sake of the human race it is needed to promote sex and get people interested somehow.
Looking at the world today, more and more young people rather sit in front of computers living in a cyber world rather than going outdoor doing any type of activity or meet people let along wanting to even have kids anymore...it's just sad. All in all...SEX WITH A VAGINA IS GOOD PEOPLE!!Not always but...most of the time